It Takes a Mom

It Takes a Mom is a weekly newsletter for working mothers who are ready to stop reading content that makes them feel something and start using tools that change how they operate.

Motherhood is a negotiation with time. You’ve been negotiating it for years, largely in the dark. The cultural script tells you to make peace with finitude. I don’t think that’s the work.

The math of motherhood is real: the hours you have, the weight each one is carrying, where the return is showing up and where it’s leaking out. Most women have never seen any of it on paper. I’m here to help you see it, claim it, and invest it deliberately.

Every Tuesday you get an essay that does one of three things: hands you a tool that changes how you operate, names a pattern in motherhood you’ve been feeling but haven’t had language for, or goes deep on something I’m working through in my own life that you might recognize.

No pep talks. No commiseration cycle. No “you’ve got this, mama.” Just sharp thinking and real tools.


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Hi, I’m Tiffany!

I’m a working mom in the thick of the same life I’m building tools for.

I spent nearly a decade in change management (which is a fancy way of saying I help people see their own patterns clearly and build from there). Then I became a mom, and my world shrank. I tried the content. I consumed the accounts. None of it changed how my Tuesday morning worked.

So I started building what I actually needed: a way to see where my time and energy were actually going, tools that worked inside my constraints instead of around them, and the kind of thinking partnership I would have killed for.

This newsletter is part of that. The rest is at ittakesamom.co: the Capacity Audit, Mom Brain Calls, and the Capacity Reset.

My friends call me when they don’t know what to do. My colleagues do too. Now you can!


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The reframe that turned my week from impossible to workable. The same math that became the foundation of the capacity audit.

The post most readers forward to a friend. If your life feels smaller than it used to, this one names why.

Why the publication is named what it is, and what reclaiming that phrase means.

On the move your brain wants to make when you’re stretched thin, and what to do instead.


Free, weekly. The first thing you’ve read in a long time that feels like it was written for your life.



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How we spend our time, and our lives, on purpose. Essays from a mom in Chicago who quit the corporate ladder to see what's on the other side of stability. Stop killing time. Start investing it.

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